
I read an article recently that really got me thinking. Mostly, it made me think of my own history and experiences with phones. Apparently, there is a growing trend to cut land line phone service to homes as people are relying more and more on cell phones and the need for a land line phone in our house isn't necessary and frankly redundant. I have noticed this phenomena happening among those I know. I still don't know how I feel about it.
I can see how people choose to eliminate the land line phones to their homes as we had an opportunity to experience what that feels like over the Christmas break, although not by choice. Our home phones have only worked a few days over the last 3 weeks. On one hand I have enjoyed the quiet and the disconnection of my teenagers from their friends. It has been handy to have all the calls directed to one location. But that is also the disadvantage. I like having my personal calls separate from the family business. I know that may not make sense to people...except me.
I also don't like my kids using my cell phone, which they do after going stir crazy from not talking to their friends after a few days. I try to remind myself how it felt as a teen to feel out of the loop with what what going on.
I know the new generation probably feels like home lines are a waste of time and expense, especially in the world of instant gratification that we live in now. But I can't help remembering how the phone has evolved during my lifetime. I wanted to jot down some of those memories to share with my kids. It may be that regular phones as we know them, could be come obsolete. I can't imagine what the generation older then I am thinks.
Remember the rotary phone? For my 16th birthday I got a phone for my bedroom. It was a rotary dial phone....cream. I used to hate to dial numbers with a lot of 0's or 9's in them. Put your finer in the 9 hole, turn the dial with your finger until you hit the metal stopper, pull your finger out and watch the circle dial click click...all the way back around. It took like 10 minutes to place a call...lucky you if your phone number was...222-1111. The rotary phone is actually in wikipedia...
And that reminds me....remember how you could dial 555-1212 as many times a day as you wanted...to hear the Greenwich Time? THAT was fun. Calling in all day to hear the official time of day. Oh, the fun we had back then.
And then what about those curly phone cords? The stretchy cords that started out as 5 feet long but when you wanted your privacy on a call, you would pull the darn thing so hard so you could wrap it around the corner to hide in the coat closet. After a couple of months the cord would be stretched out to 15 feet. And after that you'd start pulling it from the wall and then your Dad would be so mad and he would buy a new cord and ground you from the phone because you ruined the expensive cord....and...

You were really lucky if your phone wasn't mounted to the wall because you had the extra 2 foot cord from the phone to the wall...that's 2 more feet of privacy!
And you didn't have call waiting so while the teenager was on the phone (of which you usually only had one in the house...in the kitchen) no one else could call or reach you. And they got a busy signal...which is a novel idea now-days with call waiting and voicemail. So you would find out a week later that so and so tried to call and couldn't get through for days. So then the teenager would be grounded from the phone again and given a rule of only 5 minutes per phone call. The cool kids' parents would end up buying them their own phone line. Can you imagine? A separate phone line for the teens? I couldn't imagine...only the really rich kids got that.
And then there were long distance calls. It used to be super expensive to call long distance. And some days were more expensive then others and same with times of the day. So Sunday evening was the cheapest time and day of the week. So everyone would save up their long distance calls to Grandpas and Grandmas for Sunday night. Sometimes there would be so many people in the country using the phones at the same time on Sunday nights that you wouldn't be able to get through. A recorded voice operator would tell you the phone lines were busy. You'd try and try again throughout the night and finally give up and write a letter. Or you'd have to write a letter to tell your long distance friends and family....make sure and be home on Sunday night at 7:00 pm and we'll call you. It was a luxury and expense to call long distance, so you'd write the letter warning them of your approaching call. Then you'd all sit around the phone and take turns talking to each other. Your Mom would call you in and make sure you said "hi" to your Grandma...and so on...long distance was a BIG deal.
Then there was an operator. You know...like the song..."Operator". And no matter what, you could dial '0' and get a real person to answer. There was no 911. If you had an emergency you called the operator. If you wanted to make a collect call, you called the operator. Collect calls? What are those? For those who didn't have 10 cents for the pay phone or have the money to pay for long distance, you could call someone and charge the phone call to them...it was a collect call. Dial the operator...I'd like to make a collect call to....she'd call that number and while you waited on the line listening, she'd ask the person answering if they would accept the charges and then they would answer yes or no...and that was a collect call.
Now that I think about it...I lived in the stoneage of phone service. I'm sure it was more primitive in the beginning then that but not by much. My kids have never nor will ever know of or understand what a privilege the phones are. They really were that....a privilege and a marvel. No matter what, whether you'll keep your old land line or have the latest and greatest 4G cell phone technology, phones are life lines....and still a privilege in my opinion. Here's to my history with the life line...I''ll keep my land line as long as technology will allow....

but I'll download the rotary app for my iphone. ;)